This happened awhile ago………..
See am a very pleasant person, am the kind u can depend on regardless if I know u or not. I had this friend who was planning to to propose to his gal on her birthday, so he asked me to help him choose the gal’s RING. During my lunch break he picked me up and we went to the few places that i knew, I asked him how much he wanted to spend and he told me………….and yes I chose what I would have wanted to have, the stone was lil’ smaller than I would ve wanted mine to be……..
We chose the RING, he paid for it and when we were about to part, he handed me the RING asked me to bake his gal’s birthday cake and put it in there. The good friend I am, I did as i was asked and no i did not try on the RING when i got home. The birthday was on a friday had to rush home take a quick shower and deliver the cake at the hotel, it was a surprise party for her with a few of her pals that her man knew………
The man and me were the only ones who knew he was goin to propose. I managed to keep my mouth shut then she cut the cake and the RING box was in there, guy gets on one knee and proposes, she takes a min before she gives her answer and it was a YES
Fast forward………they start planning for the wedding am there for the 1st wedding meeting. The two of them had chosen a venue for their wedding, I think it was Okapi or something, the groom took me there for lunch, he asked for my opinion, told him it wouldn’t be a venue of my choice so he ended up changing the venue to International.
Fast fast forward…………..did I mention I was made Secretary in the wedding meetings….oh yes I was. The gal decided on her bday she didn’t like me much oba coz i knew abt the proposal and i made the cake I’ll never know. Towards the wedding day the bride to be passes out the wedding invites get this everyone on the committee got a card save for yours truely Apr9………..I asked the groom wat was up with her seeing as I had already worked my ass off for her wedding, the least she could have done is to give me the invite and pray I don’t show up………I let go, I was not about to make her dread marriage before she got there.
Day of the wedding am supposed to be in the city by 7am seeing as am responsible for the bridal car ofcourse she didn’t know I was in charge. I get there the car is nearly done and ready for the bride. We drive up to the salon she was at and out of kajanja I go inside to let her know that it was outside………..told her she looked lovely and wished her a fab day and went home to get ready.
I didn’t show up for the reception, oh no not because I wasn’t invited but because my cousin was getting introduced the same day….besides my friends had adviced me not to attend. My friend did not take it too well but the bride must have danced for joy once they called up the committee and I was not there………….
Thank you dinner for the committee……….. I made sure I went coz it was at their house………..am goin thru the album and there’s this studio photo of me in the album and i must admit it was a good shot. Funny thing i couldn’t remember how he had gotten it, but there it was…………..
Girl doesn’t like me and I don’t care to know why but she must be glad am out sight at the moment. Did I mention I always got to meetings a bit late so i could walk to the front………..ya i did.
Will probably one time ask what the beef is all about………why act so ignorant?
Chicks can be classic pains in the butt! I absolutely hate it when I am suspected and hated for stuff I haven’t even thought of doing. Especially when I could have done it if I had wanted to!
Sorry. You have such a level head.
Damn…you do all that, and she doesnt even appreciate it..
you to cool, any other person would have taken off from the whole thing..
Oh maybe she saw you as the kind of girl who could have had an eye for her man..
Duh! Woman, deep inside you know why she hates you, right?
Somewhere else:
Watsup 9th. High five! Or like girls pretend they actually give a damn about how you’re doing, I’ll rephrase that: How are you doing, Apr? You’re lost.
eh Erique, i suspect something else is going on here… ” or like girls pretend they actually give damn about how you are doing”????
wow… who got ur goat? (im just asking).
Munange madam, thats how women be! U just allow and move on.
@Erique
Killah
@Apr
Maybe coz deep down, chics do find it hard to believe that men (esp their men) can actually be platonic friends with other hott chics like Apr9..
some body holla at Apr for me!
Eh, I don’t know if I would have baked that cake if I was asked to incase anything went wrong or the girl got jealous.
ok, now Apr9, this is just us, your brethren at blogsville, so u can tell us, its ok: wat was it about u and this girl’s man that made her hate u? and oh, who got yo goat? (again,like Tandra, just asking)
women are like that i swear it gets to me too atleast she didnt bite your head off.
but you are totally sweet, i proolly would have done the same
she must have felt threatened because your friend probably was attracted to you… did he ever ask you out?
@ Sybella………..he didn’t and if he had God knows where i would ve asked him to go.
@ Lulu……….am not sweet at all, I only have good manners.
@ Silverbow….wish i knew had only met her a few tyms. T knows who had my goat.
@ Tamzel…..if it was ur friend who had asked for the favor ur would have.
@ B2B……maybe so.
@ Tandra……. and moved on i did. Will make sure i go see her, so i can see if i still have the same effect.
@ Erique…………. deep dow I don’t know why she hates me. Gals don’t pretend they really do give a damn.
@ Normzo……..guess i woundn’t to prove to her that she had nothing to worry about but it didn’t work. Didn’t ve the eye for her man he was too soft…….
@ Petesma………spot on.
HUH………this is someone i definitely know and am laughing my head off.
Pots u sure do know the gal.