What………….?

Drives you

Motivates you

Makes you wake up every morning

Makes you want to beat all odds at any cost

Remembrance

 

   

 

   

Your hands easy weight, teasing the bees hived in my hair, your smile at the slope of my cheek. On the occasion, you press above me, glowing, spouting readiness, mystery rapes my reasonWhen you have withdrawn your self and the magic, when only the smell of your love lingers between my breasts, then, only then, can I greedily consume your presence.Maya Angelou

 Where do these people get their words?

 

 

Benevolence………..

In this crazy world with so much going on there are still people who are kindhearted,
My Friday 13th began as a normal day a few errands to run and return home was all i had to do.

After waiting in line to be served everything was quick and pleasant, went from one
desk to other without any trouble, on the 2nd last table i was sent to the cashier to
be told how much i would ve to pay, so the cashier tells me i had to pay so much and
i didn’t have enough cash on and worst bit is they don’t accept visa cards so the lady
asked if i wanted to come back the next day and make the payment…….told her it would
take me afew minutes to return and make the payment.

Was getting ready to move out of the way for the next customer wen the lady behind me
asked…….by how much i was short. She said “I was blessed so i want to bless someone else”
Told her how much i was short and she gave it to me………i kinda felt bad but i was thankful and
i let her know and the cashier also acknowledged her kindness.

She did save me a second trip to the place, and i was so grateful……….she didn’t ve to give me her
money but she did, i didn’t ve to take her money but i did. She must ve felt happy to help out, and i was
grateful to her for being there at the right tym.

” No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted” Aesop

“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are” Theodore Roosevelt

Something happy……

Scotchie threatened to give me a hug if i didn’t post/blog something happy.

So here we go………..i went to see Tyler Perry’s Madea goes to jail the movie, i’ve watched most of
the plays and movies. Madea makes my day any day……….i sat throughtout the movie laughing so
hard so was everybody else in there.

Madea’s definition of WWJD- What’s Wrong with Jamaine Dupri. Really Madea?

So the movie ended we were all laughing on our out, it was raining and wen we got to the car we
had been given a ticket ($40) for not displaying the plate sticker needless to say it was in the glove compartment……….how nice.

Some of Tyler Perry’s movies
Diary of a mad black woman
Meet the browns
A family that preys
Madea’s family reunion
Why did i get married
Madea goes to jail the movie

Not exactly something happy as the title suggests but the movie sure made my nyt regardless of the ticket.

Listening to Janet Jackson-Son of a gun among others

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Couldn’t find a title for this coz i wasn’t ready to post anythin yet.

Am all cried out…………..not that i didn’t see it coming.

In all my anger i’ve tried to be respectful.

Wish my ladies were here……………

A good week to y’all mine started off real bad.

Let me go………..

When i come to the end of the road,

         And the sun has set for me,

I want no rites in gloom filled rooms,

             Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little…….but not too long,

And not with your head bowed low;

      Remember the love that we once

                                                            Shared

                       Miss me…………….but let me go.

For this is a journey that we all must take,

           And each must go alone.

It’s all part of the Master’s plan,

            A step on the road home.

When you are lonely and sick at heart,

                          Go to friends we know,

And busy your sorrows in doing good

                                                                           deeds.

Miss me………………but let me go.

The death of anyone be it family, friends or anyone i don’t know makes me reflect on alot of things in life. Most of us cry when we lose people dear to us………I cry for never having been able to say goodbye, i cry for the families left behind, i cry for 2moro wen u’ll  not here………..i cry because its the only way i know how to express wat i feel inside, i cry because i’ll never forget u, i cry because i didn’t see it coming………..yet the memory of your life is as real as can be.

Long distance

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LeKLKKbdbeE&feature=related

For anyone who feels this way.

Happy Valentine’s Day to you.

A Father’s Heart…….

Today i cried tears of loneliness, and i couldn’t find a good enough reason

to get out of my bed, for my reason for getting up every morning was gone.

For over 14 years, the past few days have been the first days that i’ve

come home and not found my best friends my children, it is tough

coming home to an empty house, no one to make dinner for but myself.

Have had u 3 since u were in diapers, we know each other so well, u are

my best friends yet am your father and you are my children,  there’s nothing

i wouldn’t do for u if i could……… u made a choice to move in with your mothers

and i supported u, even though i could have said NO, i didn’t because i respect and love

you unconditionally…………

Home is not the same without u but its still home, i don’t have to shout with

anybody but the silence is too much, nobody callin out daddy, daddy……..daddy ll always be here for u.

I miss my children………..sure hope they miss me too.

Name calling……..

At first i thought he didn’t know my name, then i thought he didn’t want to get my name confused with another gal’s name. Oh ya he was calling me by other names should i says pet names. He knew my name alryt only that he used it if he was talkin to someone else about me…….or if i got him mad then he would say name as if spelling it out in caps……

Of  pet names i’ve heard used………

He calls her Sweetness

She calls him Darling

They call each other Baby oba Baibe

She calls him Honey

He calls her Mukwano

They call each other Sweety oba Sweetie

He calls her Precious

She calls him Babycakes

She calls him Dear

He calls her Boo

She calls him Marshmallow

They used to call each other Sweetheart

He calls her Nalulungi

She calls him Soldier Boy

He calls her Baby Doll

He calls her Angel

She calls him Big Bear

He calls her Gorgeous

He calls her Beautiful

She calls him Love

He calls her Princess

He used to call her Soul Mate

He calls her Hotstuff

She calls him the Stallion

They call each other Sugar

She calls him Lover Boy

They call each other Mr & Mrs

He calls her Nanyinimu.

Wat pet names ve u heard used or wat do u call her/him?

It may only be a pet name, but it makes the other person feel kinda special.

“Its better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all”. Anon

Thankful……..

Am over the moon with excitement………

Ever prayed for something so bad u weren’t sure u were going to get it? All i had was hope and it has finally come to pass. Am so thankful to God because in His time He makes everything beautiful and worthwhile.

No amount of words can express how i feel but all u should know is that Apr9 is blessed beyond the curse and very grateful. Thank God with me even if u don’t know wat exactly it is that am thankful for.

“Hope is not a dream, but a way of making dreams become reality”  L.J Cardina Suenens

A great week ahead of y’all.