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I had to…… August 23, 2012

Posted by Apr9 in LIFE.

let him go….if i didn’t i would never forgive myself coz i believe in the long run he would be unhappy and so would i.

I tried to explain why i had to, he didn’t think i was being logical but i had to stick to my decision.

I miss him.

‘True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you’.
— Author Unknown


I…… May 22, 2011

Posted by Apr9 in MEN.

Could choke him….

It hurts so bad………… March 14, 2011

Posted by Apr9 in FAMILY, LIFE.

Yesterday was my niece’s 1st birthday……and i did not get a chance to wish her a happy one.

You see i haven’t spoken to my sister in over 7 or so months…I tried the number i had and it wouldn’t go through.  There is no single day that goes by that i don’t think about her and her baby…and i just pray she’s alright wherever she is.  Family drama alienated her from the rest of the family…..which drama am told she started. I’ve tried to reach out but to no avail. It hurts so bad that i can’t be a bridge when its most important.

It troubles me…..someone i was confiding in asked me “why you ?”….and in my heart i was thinkin why not me?

The Little things in life…….. February 28, 2011

Posted by Apr9 in Something to celebrate.......

I received a card from a good friend, i didn’t expect it untill she asked if i had received a card then i began expecting its arrival……i knew there were pics of her son inside coz she had mentioned was pleasantly surprised when there was one of her with her son and the new Ugandan shillings….

So i was eight thousand shillings richer……they were in denominations of five, two and one thousand, if money can be sexy i belive the new ugandan shillings are sexy…..and i’ve been showing them off to whoever cares to see whether u know where my country is or not…….

Ta sweety for brightening up my day and for your thoughtfulness.

Though our communication wanes at times of absence, I’m aware of a strength that emanates in the background.”
-Claudette Renner

Stylish and Versatile bloggers award…….. February 8, 2011

Posted by Apr9 in I was asked....., LIFE.


 For this award the rules are clear;
1. Thank the person who gave you the award and link back to them in your post.
2. Tell us 7 things about yourself.
3. Award 15 other bloggers.(though i think 15 is a big number considering
most bloggers i know dont blog nomore)
4. Contact these bloggers and let them know they have won.
 Ug girl thank u very much for the award and for something to blog about in 2011. I shall not follow the 3rd rule though since most people have been awarded by someone else….so will go straight to 7 things about me but why 7?
  1. Am a dare-devil though i don’t look anything like it…..looks can be deceiving.

                         2. From what i’ve been told am a miracle……and from what i know am highly favored.

3. My family is number 1 and i would do about anything for my family. I was talkin to my big brother and he told me if he found me or my other sisters fighting with our men he would beat up the man then ask qns later. In his eyes we can do no wrong.

                      4. I believe in miracles and i pray for about anything u can think of…even for that dress to fit that may be a tad bit smaller.

5.  Am the 9th of 11 children from my parents and the only one without a child and everyone is beginning to ask questions. I asked if any of them was willin be a surrogate no one has volunteered yet…so they ll ve to just wait till it happens and if it did i would tell them at 8 months.

                                  6. I would rather be home than in a DISCO

7. Hope to one day open an orphanage.

        In another world i think Boris Kodjoe is my man…..and i hate his wife for that. Am a sucker fortall light skinned men

Dear Fifi…………. October 10, 2010

Posted by Apr9 in LIFE, My ahaaaaa moments, Something to celebrate.......

Hey Fifi,

Its me….just like ol’ tyms. Yesterday 9th Oct was ur birthday, u would ve turned 29 but instead am here thinkin to myself its been 2 years and afew days short of 3 months since u been gone. Still hard to believe u are not coming back.

Your baby girl Eden turned 3yrs on the 2nd….i called your sister on Eden’s birthday and got to talk to her. For a 3yr old she has a mouth on her but wait she’s ur daughter and u sure had a mouth on u. She asked me when i was coming to see her, told me she’s all grown and thanked me for the clothes i had sent her…..by now i was beyond myself, broke down and cried….i cried for u..for u’ll not get to see her graduate, meet her boyfriend, u won’t be here when she gets her first period, u won’t be here when she needs to talk to about girl stuff……….and i cried for her because she ll never know ur love or how witty u were……..then i cried for myself because am not there to help ur sis with Eden coz she is urs and mine……….she’s our daughter.

Your sis has done one hell of a good job looking after Eden…..i thanked her on ur behalf. Am waiting for her to send me pictures of Eden’s birthday.

Loved u wen u were living and nothin has changed. God and u watch over ur lil’ girl…..hi to Eric tell him his lil’ girl is doin fine. RIP both of u.

Happy birthday…….love S.K

What’s happening………? May 1, 2010

Posted by Apr9 in Katogo........, PEOPLE, Uncategorized.

It’s crazy wat u get to see and get to hear when the community u r in is so small and everyone is all up in each other’s business. The community becomes so drama filled that u end up thinkin u r watching a movie scene………

Wen i had jst got here…..went to a baby shower met a couple of people next thing i knew rumors were goin around mbu some married man was spending time at where i was staying……unbelievable. Lets keep in mind am not very polite with people i don’t know and i hardly speak……am straight out rude if u want. I don’t go into the community unless am with my sis……but all that is water under the bridge. And no married man never came where i stayed…

Boy moves into woman’s house, woman has daughter……..boy is very religious and well mannered. Boy wants to settle can’t find anyone suitable in the community to marry so decides there’s no place like home. Boy goes to Ug and finds himself wifey all is said and done. Boy comes back starts to arrange for wifey to join him………woman’s daughter turns out to be pregnant…….Guess who the baby daddy is?

Different story………..Boyfriend and galfriend move in together, they do everything together…bank accounts too. Boy goes to Ug to visit, gal keeps sending lover boy money from her paycheck. Boy comes back and asks the gal to take the highroad………i know wat a nincompoop. Gal leaves and has missed her period, turns out boy had asked another in Ug to be his wifey……wifey to be maybe pregnant too.

Boys can u please stop messing about…….keep ur pants zipped if u can’t take responsibility. I feel for these gals…and ladies lets be mean with our things.

In other news…….

Home is boring but its home………..never get to cook much coz i can’t be bothered i eat very unhealthy food but its so good……i eat lots of fruits though…..ha ha ha.

A fab weekend to y’all…..

Lets cut the Bull…….. March 15, 2010

Posted by Apr9 in FAMILY, he said, LIFE, she said, they said.

Man meets woman, man and woman get together…..they both have  past relations and they have children to show for each of their pasts. Woman comes into the marriage with her children and dude is cool with that i mean u take me as u find me baggage and all….right?

Time for grown up talk, man and woman sit and talk about the children, woman wants one of the children to have a relationship with the  father and man says lets wait till child turns 18 and see  if both parties want to creat that bond, woman is very patient, 18 comes and goes……woman talks to man and he acts like he never said 18 would be the time…..

Woman is strong headed and says its goin to happen one way or another unless both parties fail to bond. Causing a few problems saying things that shouldn’t ve been said and he may regret soon…….

Time to cut all the BS, why would u deny someone to ve a relationship with a parent and vice versa if both parties are willing to give it a go? Where’s the sense in this? For this situation both knew about the other’s children before they got together……wonder if dude is insecure i’ll probably never know.

Reality check…….blood is thicker than water and for as long us both parties are on the face of planet earth they’ll meet like it or not. Before u decide to deny a child or father/mother to a have a relationship think twice and put yourself in each of their shoes……..

Who are u really protecting?

“An ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship”.  ~Spanish Proverb

On 13th I become an auntie again………my family sure is busy every year there’s a child…God is great.

Home…………. March 8, 2010

Posted by Apr9 in Uncategorized.

They say home is where the heart is…………..home sweet home……….there’s no place like home.

If its your home that’s where u want to be after a long day’s work…..home is where u can be u…do u. Many of us have been welcome in different homes for a few nights, a couple of years….u called each home even though it was never really really home……

We all long for a place to call home…..a place to call our own, personally i’ve longed for this place for over 20years and it has probably been that one wish that i haven’t let go…..don’t get me wrong i’ve lived in great homes my siblings, relatives and friends but u see those weren’t my own…..coz i knew at one point in time i would ve to leave so it was never entirely home.

I wanted/want a place to call HOME……MY HOME.

9th is coming/going home……HER HOME, I’ll be sure now to tell what it feels like to return Home….not a relative’s home but MY home…..

“Home is a place not only of strong affections, but of entire unreserve; it is life’s undress rehearsal, its backroom, its dressing room’~Harriet Beecher Stowe

‘Home is the one place in all this world where hearts are sure of each other.  It is the place of confidence.  It is the place where we tear off that mask of guarded and suspicious coldness which the world forces us to wear in self-defense, and where we pour out the unreserved communications of full and confiding hearts.  It is the spot where expressions of tenderness gush out without any sensation of awkwardness and without any dread of ridicule’.  ~Frederick W. Robertson

Why is everyone not posting……….?